Men’s Relationship Support
Recently separated and feeling lost and alone?
Accomplished at work and failing at marriage?
Anxious about how your life will change after divorce?
That was me
Separated after 27 years of marriage
Angry, cheating, lying to myself and my wife
In bad shape financially
Not the dad I wanted to be
and now…
I have a great relationship with my kids
My life is on track
I feel strong and free
I help people who want:
💡 A thinking partner and confidant.
⏰ A road map to avoid the wrong turns
💰 To be free financially.
👨👧👦 A great relationship with their kids.
💞 Clarity on the kind of relationships they want in the future.
You can do it yourself and continue to feel lost and unsure of what to do next
Or
Meet with me and let’s figure out the life you want to live.
FAQs
Relationships Page FAQs
I'm recently separated after a long marriage. How can you help me navigate this?
Having gone through separation after 27 years of marriage myself, I understand the confusion, anger, and loneliness you're experiencing. I provide a roadmap to help you process this major life change, avoid common mistakes I made, and create a foundation for healthier relationships in the future.
How do you help someone who's successful at work but failing in their marriage?
This disconnect is more common than you think. We'll explore how work success strategies might actually be hurting your relationship, identify the emotional skills you need to develop, and create new patterns of communication and connection with your partner.
What if my partner isn't willing to do couples therapy?
Individual work can still dramatically improve your relationship dynamics. By changing how you show up, communicate, and handle conflict, you can positively influence the relationship even when working alone. Many clients find that their partners become more open to joint sessions once they see positive changes.
How do I know if my marriage can be saved or if I should pursue divorce?
This is one of the hardest questions you'll face. Together, we'll honestly assess your relationship patterns, explore what changes are possible versus what's unchangeable, and help you make this decision from clarity rather than fear or anger.
I'm anxious about the financial implications of divorce. Can you help with that?
Having experienced the financial stress of divorce myself, I understand this fear. While I'm not a financial advisor, I help clients develop a realistic plan, manage the anxiety around money, and make decisions based on long-term wellbeing rather than short-term fear. I can also connect you with a local Certified Divorce Financial Specialist, a CPA who specializes in divorce.
How do I maintain a good relationship with my kids during separation/divorce?
This is often men's biggest concern. We'll work on emotional regulation so you can be present with your children, develop age-appropriate communication about the changes, and create consistency and stability in your relationship with them despite the family structure changing.